Failure is not an option. It's absolutely necessary. If you're not failing, then you aren't growing.
--Craig Goeschel, LifeChurch
In our culture, we constantly think of winning as the only valuable experience. Yet, the Bible speaks of how perseverance, troubles, and trial can be just as valuable. James 1:2-4. Indeed, such difficult times come with mouth-watering reward: The crown of Life promised by God! James 1:12. But only if you persevere, seeking the wisdom of God. James 1:5.
What thing are you "failing" at right now? What situation or obstacle seems insurmountable? Instead of thinking about it in terms of failure, reframe it from God's perspective. How can He use this to grow your character? Following the instructions in James 1:5, ask Him to give you wisdom in approaching your particular problem.
Now, here comes the hard part. Make an action plan based on God's wisdom and guidance. Share with us how your action plan will help you grow in your faith of Jesus Christ.